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please help by giving mw insight into the intentions of my wife i regards XXXXX
XXXXX relationship
we have been arguing for the past 7 months after moving into a $6M home which
took a miracle for me to manifest
our issue has been over her having more children which she had promised to do
once we were in a bigger home .
our disagreement came to a head 2 weeks ago and she left home and then
subsequently placed an apprehended voilence order on me
where i am not allowed to approach her or our home.
it will go before a court this Friday -
will we ever recover from this situation ????

Rajhere · Accepted Answer

Raj_here :

hi

Raj_here :

i will provide you with the best possible answer

Raj_here :

can i know your name pls ( if possible)

Customer:

My name is Ray

Raj_here :

thanks for telline me your name ,

Raj_here :

So as i can feel the situation you both are going through was not in your past ,
i mean you both had a good time in your past years

Raj_here :

but however now the situation had changed to much bitter

Customer:

not necessarily we have had issues - but we would recover and move on - the
children or having more has been an underlying issue for past 8 yeras - always
had conditions attched - and I had had enough

Raj_here :

about your wife : she is quite desirous person and tries to fulfill her own
desire and yes she mostly listen to her own heart

Raj_here :

so its a bit difficult situation for you

Raj_here :

yes i do feel that , you did a lot for her to get her convinced in a way or
other , you filfilled her every conditions attached but the results were not
what you expected

Customer:

I am the one that folows my heart - I follow my intuition - she is more
analytical and treats life like a science experiment !!!

Customer:

and that is 80% of the problem and she is very co -dependant !!

Raj_here :

And as i get the feelings you both will be together again

Customer:

This court proceeding is very vile - I am usually a very forgiving person - but
what she has done is qeit concerning ?? all she had to do was try and manage my
emtions - especially after everything I have given her ??!!

Raj_here :

See what i can feel is you both will be together again but the problem still
persists thats you both will again have the argument on having more children

Customer:

How can I trust her again ??

Customer:

Will we have more children together ??

Raj_here :

you have a good heart and good qualities but not necessary that everyone has
that , she thinks her own way

Customer:

why is she not responding to my attempts to communicate ?? all be it only via
text ??

Raj_here :

reality is she is not ready for having more children and just puttingthe
conditions so that you may atlast leave your wish

Customer:

My heart and qualities should not be confused with weakness

Customer:

if that is the case she lied and I can tolerate or live with such a person -
that is not honourable !!

Raj_here :

thats not to be confused with weakness its good but thats not how other takes it
, the world is not so beautiful as we think it is

Raj_here :

she is not lying my friend , instead she is just delaying the process

Raj_here :

she thinks that a day may come when you will stop asking for more children

Customer:

I understand all that - I want insight into why she done what she has done -??
she actually went as far as to say to the police that I assualted her ??!!!
which is a lie !!!

Raj_here :

ok is there any more questions you wish to ask ?

Raj_here :

as i feel her every action or move was just to avoid your wishs for more
children as she does not want it

Customer:

She is smarter than that - as she knowns I would not tolerate such a thing - I
have confronted about her intentions and she has point blank said that if she
did not want more children she would not be with me ??

Customer:

raraj

Customer:

what are you telling me ??

Customer:

we will be together and not have any more chilldren ??

Raj_here :

yes she said that to you , but she wished to be with you . By heart she doesnt
want to loose a good and kind person like you but does not want to have more
children , She has thought that you may stop asking for more children

Customer:

I would rather be on my own than be with someone I cannot TRUST

Raj_here :

no , dont be confused , I am sorry if i made you confused , i said that you both
will be together and will face this problem in some future too but this problem
will get solved

Customer:

knowning what you know about how I feel and using your gift what do you see for
us in the next 6 months ??

Raj_here :

As i can feel the problem of more children will get solved in a year ( quite
long) but yes

Raj_here :

I have already said you that before you asked my friend , it will take a year

Customer:

I am very distressed about these proceedings on Friday - the court can decide to
not allow me back into my home if they beleive her veiw on what happened.

Customer:

I have instructed a Barrister of criminal law to represent me - and so there
will be a lot scares to heal - will she ver be conytite and acknowledge how much
she has hurt me ??

Raj_here :

my friend you are not going through a good time

Raj_here :

but you will have it soon

Customer:

what will I have soon ??

Raj_here :

you will start having your good time after march and after that only you will
have a beter relationship

Customer:

does that mean I will not be back in my home until March ??

Raj_here :

sorry i mean by may , you will have your good time by may 2012 and after that
only your relationship will improve

Customer:

when will I be back in my home ??

Customer:

I will not last past this Friday

Raj_here :

ofcourse you will get back home before that , but after that the problems you
are facing with her will end

Customer:

I will start Divorce Proceedings - I cannot be with a person whom takes me for
granted as a person and my feelings ??!!!

Raj_here :

i was telling about the problems you are facing with her will end after may 2012
, and thus you will get happiness in your life

Customer:

one last question - please give me an idea of what you see happening this Friday
in court and why this girl is totally ignoring even the simple attempts to
communicate with me ??

Raj_here :

thats your decision my friend but she does love you and you too have feelings
for her , i see you will feel hurt by divorce and anyhow the problems will end
after may , so if you cant wait then you can go for it

Raj_here :

what i feel she is ignoring the communication because even she is not getting
what will she answer to your questions

Customer:

that makes her irrational - not emotionally stable ??!!

Raj_here :

like the question could be how you assualted her , why she did this to you etc?
even she doesnt know what she will answer you

Raj_here :

yes and thats because she doesnt want children but wishes to be with you

Raj_here :

ok hope you find my answer helpful

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