Hi your answer last night got me confused. my husband lives…

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Answer 1

replied 11 years ago

I did the reading with your husbands intentions and his perspective on the situation. Her are those intensions.

Past...Seven of Pentacles: In the past he found the relationship very rewarding and fruitful. There is money involved here, and he is getting it from you. This is also about approval, in the past he has taken a step back from the relationship to look at it and see if it was good and going in such a way that he wanted it to.He feels that he has put work into the relationship (if this is actual or not...probably not but again this reading is from his perspective and his intentions.) He is getting tiered of waiting and his patience is where thin. Whatever he was looking for in this relationship, he hasn't seen what he wants yet. He feels like he wants to walk away.

Present....Eight of Pentacles: He feels that he is working hard, and for this own gain. He feels that he has skillfully crafted something and it now waiting for the rewards. This sounds sneaky in your situation. I sounds like He is trying to get something from you. He has a plan in mind for sure so be careful to watch out for anything regarding that.

Future....Six of Swords: This card is about leaving difficulties behind. If it becomes harder for him to get what he wants from you or if he can't finish his plans as in the card above, he will surrender and let this go, everything, relationship and all. So if you want to speed up the process, then you need to figure out what it is that he is doing here and stop those things from happening. To me, it honestly looks like he is using you for the money.

So I realize that this gives a general over view as to what he is thinking and what his view is. But it doesn't help you to get much closer to the reason or this plan. So Here is a second reading looking only at what he is doing presently regarding this plan that he has been working out.

Queen of Cups and Six of Pentacles: He sees that you are a kind woman, a great story teller and creative. Sometimes you can be shy and you are extremely spiritual in your own way. The beach may be one of your favorite places (or something near water) because it is very calming to you almost like church. You are affectionate and loving. However, he doesn't know that your intuition is spot on and you know whats going on. Follow your intuition. He also doesn't know that when you get mad, well lets just say he doesn't to piss you off. If he thinks he has seen how mad you can get....he has not idea. I pulled a second card for this position and it is the Six of Pentacles. You freely give to him, time and money. The money isn't a huge sum but its not pocket change. He is taking advantage of this. He sees you as his sugar mama.

Seven of Swords: This is about a thief. He is sneaky and is obviously steeling from you. What exactly are you getting in return for you efforts and the support that you are giving? He doesn't think that you know whats going on, and thinks that he can get away with it. But someone else knows the truth about this situation (you) and he won't get away with it too much longer. Be on your guard, he is trying to steal information from you to use against you.

The Star: This is a card of faith and hope. It is saying that if stop helping him, he will be able to get help and what he is seeking from someone else. If you continue to help him, his plan will succeed.

So what do you do? Four of Swords: Rest, meditate and recover. This card indicates that you have had many arguments and battles and now you need time to recover and reflect so that you can gain new insights and solutions. Doing this will help clear your head and allow you to see things more clearly and gain insights you could before. This also could be that you need to let the relationship rest, you should declare that its over, that you won't support him and when he does spend have the year in the U.S that you would prefer living separate (if this is in fact what you want). Ask him to sign the Divorce papers...I know you have probably already demanded this, but don't do anything until you take sometime away from the situation to reflect. You can also give in and ask someone like the layer, to give advice. Is there anything that you can do to speed up the process or get around him not signing it?

Hope this was more insightful.
Glenda

Answer 2

Expert: tarotbyglenda,

replied 11 years ago

Six of Wands: This is the victory card. He will feel like he is winning at his plan if you do go. He will think that by inviting you and being nice, that you will find that things are going well again. He will need to put on quite a show to keep this up. Either way, there will be a victory for one of you. You need to decide what you really want and put plans in action to get that, because you just might win.

Justice: This says that the truth will come out and that karma will give its return to where it is due. He will have to answer to his past actions. This is also about you weighting if you should go or not. You have to sit and think first about what you want, do you want this relationship to work or not. Then you must think about what going or staying will do to perpetuate the situation. You need to do whatever is necessary to bring back balance in your life in all areas. This also can indicate legal adjustments in your marriage. If you don't go he may take it that you are not longer interested in this relationship and sign the divorce papers.

The Hierophant: I see you growing roots and staying. I don't see travel or movement involved. I see this as a very traditional card and rooting your beliefs in tradition. Living apart just might not sit right with you or even getting a divorce may be something that you have always frowned at, that marriage should be final. To me as this card in in the future, I think that you will begin to rebuild your foundation in traditions that you feel are important and building a better foundation for your future life.

I find that when I'm really struggling with making a choice, its because I do know the answer, but I'm struggling because I'm scared and I know that the thing that I really need to do and want to do will be difficult and painful at first to deal with and admit. It will get better though.

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