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My 54 year old husband of 21+ years is gay and he wont tell

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My 54 year old husband of 21+ years is gay and he won't tell me. What do I do ?
Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: General
Expert:  A. Schuyler replied 6 years ago.



Thanks for contacting Just Answer. What do you mean by "what do I do?" What do you do about what? Is this a Health question, Legal question, or something else?


Customer: replied 6 years ago.
I'm sorry - How do I get him to tell me he is gay ???
Expert:  A. Schuyler replied 6 years ago.

How do you know he is gay?

Customer: replied 6 years ago.
Because sex in the bedroom has changed in the past year. He does not touch the woman parts anymore. Something he used to love. He is very distracted and I've "seen" him looking more at men than women.
Expert:  A. Schuyler replied 6 years ago.

That doesn't necessarily mean he is gay. It may mean that he has a physical problem, that he isn't interested in sex with you any more, or that he is upset about something else in your relationship. He should see his doctor to see if he has a physical problem that is affecting his sex drive. You may also want to consider marital counseling to save your marriage.


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