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I have 2 children with the same man. One child has my last…

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I have 2 children with the same man. One child has my last name and he is not on her birth certificate. One child has his last name and he is on the birth certificate. He is threatening to take the children, what do I need to do to ensure I get full custody of both children?

Lawyer's Assistant: What steps have you taken? Have you filed any papers in family court?

I have not taken any steps. I was told by a lawyer to wait until he serves me with papers

Lawyer's Assistant: Family law varies by state. What state are you in?

Oklahoma

Lawyer's Assistant: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?

Not that I can think if

Submitted: 27 days ago.Category: Family Law
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Family Lawyer: Nisha Jones,
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You'll need to file a Motion for Sole Physical and Legal Custody with your local court.

If you two were not legally married, then the court will move to establish paternity, and then will hear his Response to your petition in regards ***** ***** requests for custody or visitation rights.

When considering custody matters, the court uses the best interest of the child standard.

The factors included under the best interest of the child standard are:

• The wishes of each parent and sometimes the child (depending on the child's age);

• The quality of the relationship between the child and the parents;

• The relationship with grandparents, siblings and or other significant people in the child's life;

• The child's relationship to his or her school, religious institution and community;

• The mental and physical health of all parties;

• Any past, present or possible future spousal or child abuse by either parent;

• Any past or present drug or substance abuse by either parent;

• Any past or present criminal actions by either parent other than minor infractions or less serious crimes that were committed a long time ago with no recent criminal actions;

• Which parent has been involved in the past in getting the child to doctor and dentist appointments;

• Which parent has been involved in the child's schooling, attending parent teacher conferences and going to school functions;

• Which parent is most likely to provide a safe home environment for the child and not engage in activities in the home that can cause health problems for the child. Some judges like to find out who smokes in the home - especially if the child has asthma or allergies. Another safety issue is using a car seat for younger children;

• The willingness of a potential custodial parent to foster a relationship and visitation with the other parent;

• The stability in the child's home life that a parent is able to provide for the child;

• A parent's ability to provide for the material needs of the child;

• The demonstrated ability of each parent to make good decisions regarding the child's welfare. Whether there are siblings or half-siblings with established close relationships (courts tend to keep siblings together.); and,

• A parent's ability to spend time with the child.

The court will consider all of the above factors and ultimately make a ruling in regards ***** *****

You should consider hiring a lawyer to represent you in this process. Your attorney can prepare all of the motions on your behalf, and can appear in court beside you to make all of the necessary legal arguments.

You can contact the Oklahoma State Bar for a referral to a custody lawyer in your area.

The phone number is:

***-***-****

I hope that helps!

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