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Okay so my friend is in the military and she asked her spouse of only months for a divorce. He has said he has proof she has cheated and he will not sign papers unless she signs stating the adulterous acts were true. They both live in South Carolina and she feels trapped and wants to know how to get a divorce.
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I am sorry to hear that your friend is having this issue.

Do they parties have children?

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Family Lawyer: Sean K, Family Law Attorney replied 3 months ago

Good to know. Give me a moment and I will set out an overview.

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Family Lawyer: Sean K, Family Law Attorney replied 3 months ago

In South Carolina, there is no requirement that one spouse "sign" any papers for a divorce. If there is a basis, or grounds for the divorce, then so long as the spouse seeking the divorce can prove it, then the divorce will be granted, even over the objection of the other spouse.

Now if they have been married several months, unless she has some documentation that he has committed a fault ground - habitual drunkenness (to include substance abuse), physical cruelty, or adultery, she would have to separate and live apart from him for 365 days then ask the Court for a divorce. This timeline starts when the separation and she does not need the Court's permission.

I should also point out that there is no requirement in SC that one spouse sign any document admitting to any fault based ground, especially adultery. Though rarely prosecuted, adultery in South Carolina is still a criminal act so your friend should not, as I said, sign anything like he is asking.

If the husband did have proof, she could not stop him from pursuing a divorce on adultery, but she could never be required to offer proof or testimony. As well, if in a divorce proceeding there was evidence of adultery, no criminal issue would result, this just doesn't happen.

So for a divorce the first thing she needs to do is separation and start the 1 year separation period. If there is a fault based ground as set out above, that could be pursued.

For such a short marriage, there should be minimal if any property to divide so it would just be an issue of the divorce.

Please note: This is general information for educational purposes only and is not legal advice. There is no specific course of action is proposed and no attorney-client relationship or privilege formed within this conversation.

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I wanted to follow up and see if there were any further questions.

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