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I received divorce papers in the mail from my husband, I…

Hello, I received divorce...

Hello, I received divorce papers in the mail from my husband, I don't want to contest it, but I need to know what happens when we have 5 children and I am unemployed

Lawyer's Assistant: Because family law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?

Delaware

Lawyer's Assistant: Has anything been filed or reported?

He filed on march 1 I received the papers yesterday

Lawyer's Assistant: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?

I would like to change my locks on the door, the house is in my name and my grandmothers name

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I'm sorry to hear about your situation.

How long were you and your spouse married?

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Customer reply replied 1 month ago
almost 9 years

Thanks for the additional information. Give me just a few minutes to finish typing up some information for you, thanks!

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Customer reply replied 1 month ago
I am unemployed

You can seek alimony.

Delaware offers temprary alimony which can be awarded to you while the divorce is still processing.

You can then also receive alimony for a period of time after the divorce is finalized.

Alimony is Delaware is considered to be rehabilitative, which means the court will usually award it for a period of time in which you are supposed to actively seek employment, attend school, etc.

Some of the factors the court considers when awarding alimony are if the receiving spouse:

  • "is dependent on the other spouse, and the other is not already legally obligated to provide support (under the terms of a prenuptial agreement, for example)
  • lacks sufficient property, including any apportioned marital property, to provide for his or her own reasonable needs
  • is unable to become self-supporting through appropriate employment, or
  • is the custodian of a child whose condition or circumstances make it appropriate for the spouse to delay finding employment."

Permanent alimony is only awarded in cases where the marriage was 20 years or longer.

You can also petition the court for child support for your 5 children.

You should consider hiring a divorce lawyer to represent you in this upcoming divorce process. You want to make sure that your interests are adequately protected.

You can contact the Delaware State Bar for a referral to a divorce attorney in your area.

There are sometimes pro bono attorneys available who can take your case for free, so be sure to inquire about that as well.

The phone number is:

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Unfortunately no, you cannot change the locks.

However you can petition the court for you and your children to remain in the home while the divorce is pending, this is customarily granted.

I hope that helps!

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Customer reply replied 1 month ago
he has to stay in the same house with me until when

He is legally permitted to.

You unfortunately are not legally permitted to change the locks.

You would have to go through a formal eviction process, but that may prove difficult if not impossible, if his name is ***** ***** deed to the house as well.

Your other option is to get an order from the judge, pertaining to who is allowed to live in the house while the divorce is pending, ie. that you and your children are allowed to remain but that he should move out.

It will be in the judge's discretion, but it's not uncommon for a judge to grant a request like this.

I hope that helps! Let me know if you still have any questions about this.

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Customer reply replied 1 month ago
thank you so much

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