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Lawyer's Assistant: What steps have you taken? Have you filed any papers in family court?

No not like that. I live in Virginia. Not looking into divorce as of now. But if I were to confront this guy or even let his wife know what’s going on, am I doing anything illegal?

Lawyer's Assistant: Have you talked to a lawyer about this yet?

Bo No

Lawyer's Assistant: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?

I do t think so. Like what else would they need to know.

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I am sorry for your dilemma, but I have information you will find helpful.

No, it is not illegal, in and of itself, to contact someone about the affair.

It can cross the line, however, if you start harassing or stalking the other party, but merely making contact once is not illegal.

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Customer reply replied 2 months ago
If I found out my wife is having an affair, and I confront this guy or even let his wife know what’s going on, am I doing anything illegal?

Did you see my answer?

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Customer reply replied 2 months ago
got your answer. So I’m clear I just him to stop contacting her. I can request that from him? And if he doesn’t comply what are my options?

Yes, it is legal so long as you do not threaten his physical safety.

If he does not comply, then your options are somewhat limited to divorcing your spouse.

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Customer reply replied 2 months ago
Now I don’t have physical proof. My wife has confessed to me because I saw the obscene amount of texting they were doing. Right now divorce is not what me and my wife are talking but just the fact that he was her boss I think he took advantage. I’m not trying to involve work at all just want him to know I know and to leave heralone.

Thank you for following up.

Contact him and tell him so. Otherwise, there is not much else you can legally do.

If he was your wife's boss then she may have a claim for sexual harassment, but that is her claim to pursue, if she wants, not yours.

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Customer reply replied 2 months ago
if I just tell his wife cause I know who she is, can I do that?

Sure. However, if it is not true the husband may have a claim against you for defamation. So, if all you know for sure is that there was sexting then restrict the disclosure to that.

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Customer reply replied 2 months ago
don’t say they having an affair , just point out the fact of the enormous amounts of text, sometimes after midnight exchanges of pictures seems very likely it’s not a professional relationship. It better yet just make her aware of the phone activity they have b
Limit the disclosure to what you know, rather than what you suspect or infer.
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Customer reply replied 2 months ago
Okay that’s sounds great. I appreciate you taking the time to advise me me on this matter.
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