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My son is 27 his girlfriend died he has his seven-year-old son but the boyfriend is trying to get custody so he needs a lawyer we live in Clearlake California so we need a referral thank you

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My son has his son with him and is sending them to school and and taking care of him but the boyfriend has filed a petition for appointment of guardianship and there's a court date on the 20th

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California

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Family Lawyer: Gerald-Esquire, Lawyer replied 10 months ago
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Hello,

Thank you for your patience and thank you for using Just Answer. I want to provide you the best service I can. Please feel free to ask any follow-up questions you have.

I am an attorney with 30 years of experience; I hope to provide you information that will help you in resolving your question.

Generally, the Courts disfavor non-parental guardians, BUT it can occur. This can get complicated so it is recommended that he obtain local counsel to assist him. Please do take this seriously.

California Family Code 3041 provides for Custody Award to non parent when certain factors are met. The law states that custody may be granted to a person that is not a parent of minor if the court makes a finding that leaving the minor in the custody of the parent would be detrimental, and placing custody with the non-parent is in the best interest of the child. Subsection (c), defines detriment as anything that would have a harmful effect on the child as a result of removing the minor from the care, custody and control of a person that has assumed the “day-to-day” functions of the parent (physical, financial, psychological). Notice that the statute does not make any reference to guardianship, only custody.

Additionally, California Probate Code 1516.5 allows a guardian to retain permanent guardianship and adoptive rights over a minor, once a two-year requisite is met. Subsection (a), states that a proceeding to have the minor removed from care, custody and control of the parents requires: (1) That neither parent have legal custody of the minor; (2) The child resided within the physical custody of the guardian for a period of at least two-years; (3) The child would benefit from being adopted by the guardian, utilize such factors as: (A) The relationship between the minor and the parent; (B) The Relationship between the minor and the guardian; (C) The relationship between the minor and siblings. Notice that Section 1516.5 removes all parental rights from the parents, without mentioning the nature of how the guardian initially achieved custody of the minor.

An experienced family law attorney should be able to help him. He can find a local family law attorney here:

http://lawyers.findlaw.com/lawyer/practicestate/family-law/california

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Family Lawyer: Gerald-Esquire, Lawyer replied 10 months ago

Also take a look at this link. It has detailed information on this process:

http://www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp-guardianship.htm

Good luck.

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Gerald

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