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Divorce, and wife asking for $850 in alimony in settlement…

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Divorce, and wife asking for $850 in alimony in settlement draft. She is working, in great mind and physical health. She makes 42k while I make 67k as a teacher. This is on top of $820 for child support. I think I have a better chance in court than this settlement. Am I right?

Lawyer's Assistant: Because family law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?

Alabama

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Not yet officially.

Lawyer's Assistant: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?

Marital home in both our names and i have a decent amount of debt.

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Customer reply replied 8 months ago
Married 14 years. Wanting to conduct as pro se

The amount she is asking isn't out of line for 14 years of marriage although it is probably a little high. However, your chances are 50-50 as to whether the judge will award that amount if you represent yourself. The chances of not having to pay that amount is less if you use an attorney.

Judges don't mind pro se parties in a divorce case if it is uncontested with no property, no alimony, and no children. They like it a lot less when these are included because the order get very difficult and often have mistakes which result in them having to be redone later.

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Customer reply replied 8 months ago
She has one. I thought we were going to be able to work through a settlement but she became greedy. She also asked for her attorney fees to be paid. I can prove the difficulty to pay.

There is more than just difficulty to pay, In addition, the judge will usually not give a lot of weight to "other bills" but will instead rank child support as the most serious, then alimony, then the other debts after that.

In addition, to get any type of exhibits admitted you have to be fairly proficient with the Rules of Evidence.

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Customer reply replied 8 months ago
understood. I'll determine whether to retain or not giving our next trial order is in a month. Thank you.

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