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Dv on both sides of parents and both have prior Cps involvement who is more likely to get custody a family friend or relative or the parents ?

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Family Lawyer: LegalGems, Lawyer replied 10 months ago
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Customer reply replied 10 months ago
the father currently has a DV misdemeanor case for trying to commit Suicide in front of the kids and the mom has a prior DV from an ex boyfriend Cps did not take kids however father placed kids with his ex girlfriend who has emotional attachment to the kids
Customer reply replied 10 months ago
My question is what should the mom do if she is a current law abiding citizen and has no current cases or court going on
Family Lawyer: LegalGems, Lawyer replied 10 months ago

Preference is typically given to qualified relatives over family friends; there is a statutory preference for this -please see:

http://apps.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=13.34.130

https://www.childwelfare.gov/topics/systemwide/laws-policies/statutes/placement/

That pertains to CPS cases.

In order for a third party (relative or friend) to obtain third party custody of a child, that requires a court order. Consideration may be given to the parent's preferences but the court will try to do what is in the child's best interests.

As between the 2 parents, the court would decide custody and visitation based on the best interests of the child. Current valid DV cases are given more consideration/weight than older DV cases, if they are of the same magnitude.

The court will consider the following factors:

(a) The love, affection, and other emotional ties existing between the parties involved and the child.

(b) The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to give the child love, affection, and guidance and to continue the education and raising of the child in his or her religion or creed, if any.

(c) The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to provide the child with food, clothing, medical care or other remedial care recognized and permitted under the laws of this state in place of medical care, and other material needs.

(d) The length of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment, and the desirability of maintaining continuity.

(e) The permanence, as a family unit, of the existing or proposed custodial home or homes.

(f) The moral fitness of the parties involved.

(g) The mental and physical health of the parties involved.

(h) The home, school, and community record of the child.

(i) The reasonable preference of the child, if the court considers the child to be of sufficient age to express preference.

(j) The willingness and ability of each of the parties to facilitate and encourage a close and continuing parent-child relationship between the child and the other parent or the child and the parents.

(k) Domestic violence, regardless of whether the violence was directed against or witnessed by the child.

(l) Any other factor considered by the court to be relevant to a particular child custody dispute.

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Customer reply replied 10 months ago
Moms DV case less magnitude then the fathers DV case and would both parties have to agree to a third party for custody or does the court just decide not to give custody to both parents ?
Family Lawyer: LegalGems, Lawyer replied 10 months ago

No, the parents do not need to consent to third party custody; rather the third party would need to prove the parents are unfit or the placement with an otherwise fit parent would negatively affect the child's growth and development.

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