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I live in pa, married 23 years. A few months ago I found out my husband was having an affair with whom he is now living with, with that being said. I owned my home mortgage free when we married. We are not divorcing at this point however I want to move out of the house..is it wise for me to move or stay where I'm at u till we do divorce? Which may be years because of health insurance. I am on disability, unable to keep up with the yard work..I know he is entitled to 40% of my belongings from the date we married...what if I move what will he be entitled to. Or will lose the money (value) of the home I paid for before marriage

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Pa

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I had a consultation about where to begin. I have not sign a contract

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I'm just concerned about if I move will that screw me fininacially, if we divorce will he be responsible for my health benefits

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Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 9 months ago
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I am very sorry to hear about this situation.

GENERAL DIVISION

.Community property and debt is split equitably which means fair, but necessarily 50/50. In case of titled assets such as homes, cars, etc., it usually is awarded to one party and that party is ordered to make an “equalizing payment” to the other party. For example, a car worth $10k will be given to the wife but the wife is ordered to make a payment of 5k to the husband. Time to make the payments or payment plans are a norm in such a situation. Equalizing payments can also be ordered if one party argues a “fault.” Generally, one party simply alleges irreconcilable differences. However, most states retain grounds for divorce where one party alleges fault when divorcing, such as neglect, assault, affair, etc, and because of this, the Court can award that party additional equalizing payments.

So assuming someone in your situation plans to argue the fault of divorce, this would likely help you get a bigger share of the marital property if the fault is proven. This also likely means more chance at getting the home.

IF YOU WANT TO GET THE HOME

Then someone in your situation does not want to relocate. By relocating, one is sending the message to the court - "I don't need the home." It is better to ask the Court for temporary orders that HE relocate as part of the divorce.

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Customer reply replied 9 months ago
Ok maybe I didn't explain this I owned my home for 10 years before we got married free and clear of a mortgage. I was told in Pa whatever I own he is entitled to 40% of, same with him. Since I owned my home the value of my home from the we married is mine. However up until we divorce the value of the house he is entitled to...I'm worried that if I move to a condo because it will not require yard work, and if we both sign for a mortgage on a new property I will lose my value of the house that I had before we married..say I paid $50,000.00 for the house sold it for $100,000.00 he will only be entitle to 40% of $50,000.00. I want to know will I lose my initial 50,000.00 I paid for the house which now he has no claim to.
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 9 months ago

Did he ever put his name on that house which you owned prior to marriage?

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Customer reply replied 9 months ago
He moved out is living with the female he committed adultry with.
Customer reply replied 9 months ago
I more ? Can he be required to pay for my health insurance, with him I have blue cross blue shield...and Medicare. Without I will only have medicare
Customer reply replied 9 months ago
Do you know when I will get the call?
Customer reply replied 9 months ago
No his name was never on the deed,...the payment should go through the bank called from their fraud unit to verify.
Family Lawyer: Joycelaw, Attorney replied 9 months ago
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Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 9 months ago

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I am not sure where you heard that 40%, but it is simply not true. Consider the assets into two camps. Camp one is SEPARATE property. This is anything owned before marriage, inherited, or gifted to you during marriage. Camp two is communal property. This is everything else. Now, separate property is not divided - it goes back to the person that it belongs to. It is the community property which is divided equitably (see my first answer).

You owned the home before marriage and his name was never put on the deed. I imagine that you never financed with his name on the mortgage, either? if not, then it is separate property, and arguably simply would go back to you.

And in temporary orders - if requested - the Court may agree to a fair request for temporary payment for medical insurance and whatever else is needed. This can be revisited during the divorce. So yes, this is a possibility.

Again, my apologies for the wait.

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