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I make the money in the house. I might get a divorce, but if we have joint custody, will i have to pay child support?

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Hawaii

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I need to figure out a way not to pay child support. She will probably use it on drugs or something. I need to avoid giving her money but i can offer to physically but items for my son. But not money

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I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Generally speaking, yes, that's what's going to happen. Now generally it's not about who makes more, but rather who has custody and who does not.

n Hawaii, both parents have a duty to support their child (or children). Generally, however, the parent who spends less than half time with the child – the non-custodial parent – actually pays support. The custodial parent – the parent who has the most time with the child – remains responsible for child support too, but the law assumes that this parent spends the required amount directly on the child.

You can find a fair calculation about what you can expect in terms of child support here: http://www.childsupporthq.com/hawaii-child-support-calculator.html. You can play around with the numbers, but the calculation is going to be what the courts use once it's determined who gets custody.

Hope that clears things up a bit. If you have any other questions, please let me know. If not, and you have not yet, please rate my answer AND press the "submit" button, if applicable.

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Customer reply replied 9 months ago
theres no way to avoid paying? So if we both have 50/50. Does that mean i still have to pay even though we have same amount of time with our child? If she doesnt work, dors that force me to pay even more?
Family Lawyer: ScottyMacEsq, Lawyer replied 9 months ago

Sorry for the delay, I had to step away from the desk for a few minutes... Generally if you can come to an agreement with her AND the court thinks that it's in the best interest of the child, then the court can deviate from the standard child support amount. But in a 50/50 situation, the support obligation is reduced by about 50%. So take the same amount and reduce it 50% to get an approximate number.

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