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I have been divorced for almost 4 years. I am paying

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I have been divorced for...
I have been divorced for almost 4 years. I am paying maintenance to my ex. It is my understanding that this will end when she marries or cohabitants. What constitutes co-habitation? And how do I re approach the court to prove this?
JA: Because family law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?
Customer: IL
JA: Has anything been filed or reported?
Customer: Not as of yet
Submitted: 3 months ago.Category: Family Law
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Family Lawyer: Loren, Lawyer replied 3 months ago
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Under Illinois law, the paying spouse’s obligation to pay alimony ends immediately when the supported spouse begins cohabiting with another person. Cohabitation means that two people are living in a manner similar to a spousal relationship. Cohabitation is not an objective standard but one interpreted by the court. When the court is deciding whether two people are cohabiting or simply in a “dating” relationship, the judge will consider the following factors:

  • the length of the relationship
  • how much time the couple spends together
  • the nature of activities the couple engages in
  • the interrelation of their personal affairs (for example, whether they have joint accounts, contribute jointly to pay bills, have purchased property together, and so on)
  • whether the couple vacations together, and
  • whether the couple spends holidays together.

It basically boils down to whether the couple are making a home together or just roommates.

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