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I met a woman about a month ago and she told me that she had a restraining order against her husband and that there marriage is failing. I just received a subpoena to testify on his behalf. Can I plead the 5th

Lawyer's Assistant: Because laws vary from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?

Virginia

Lawyer's Assistant: Has anything been filed or reported?

He filed for divorce

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Lucy, Esq.
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I'm Lucy, and I'd be happy to answer your questions today.

The Fifth Amendment gives people an absolute right not to incriminate themselves. It doesn't give a right to protect any third parties. Adultery is still illegal in Virginia, but even if you did have sex with her (which it doesn't sound like you did, from the question), it's only a crime for the married person - not the unmarried person. Code of Virginia, Section 18.2-365. That means, for you to plead the fifth, you would need to be married and you'd need to have had sex with her.

If the questioning veers into other territory where the answer requires you to admit committing some other crime, you can refuse to answer. Otherwise, if you don't answer questions, you could be held in contempt of court. The judge could order you to answer the questions and put you in jail if you refuse.

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Customer reply replied 11 months ago
We did have sex a couple of times

Then you can refuse to answer on Fifth Amendment grounds if you are married.

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Customer reply replied 11 months ago
I am not married but she is. The subpoena is from her husband
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I'm aware that she's married and that her husband sent the subpoena. I'm saying that you can't refuse to answer questions, because you'd only be incriminating yourself if you were married.

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Customer reply replied 11 months ago
I have to answer the questions then .

Unfortunately, yes.

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You could tell her that you've got the subpoena so she can have her lawyer file a Motion to Quash it.

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