Hello I am still needing to pay my ex wife $5000 for last payment. This was an agreement upon her finally signing off to give me a divorce
that she wanted a number of years ago. I have paid everything else but this is the last payment. I have requested another extension. However, she is demanding for me to pay end of January or she will get her lawyer to begin paperwork to garnish and/or seize my bank accounts. Two weeks is not much of an extension.
I am wondering if there is any recourse I could take, should I file my own paperword to request the courts to give me an extension before she has a chance to try and seize? If so what type of papers and any other details possible.
Also I had received primary custody of my two boys years ago as she decided to move out of our town 12 hours away.
My oldest boy (age 17 this Feb) has always had behaviour issues, lack of respect and defiance. Within the last year he decided, after a big blow up with me laying down some rules such as no drinking alcohol, no talking back, stop getting kicked out of school, etc, that he no longer was going to live with me and went to live with his mother
. She is now also demanding child support
. Our agreement upon seperation/divorce was that I would not pay spousal support
and she would not pay child support (since I was awarded both children). Basically what I would have to pay out in spousal support and what she would pay out in child support we agreed that it would just cancel each other out, hence no payments on either side.
Is there any recourse for me regarding child support at all since my oldest left on his own accord. I am having to respond to my ex's email demanding the above. Would it be reasonable to offer to pay $1000 end of January, then post dated cheques to cover the remaining. That in itself is quite difficult at this time but I will have to manage something.
I need some advice of how to handle the above and respond to ex's email and demands.