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im looking for help for my daughter. she has issues with her ex when he has the kids. He is mentally and physically abusing the kids. and dhs or anyone is wanting to help
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Family Lawyer: FamilyAttorney, Lawyer replied 1 year ago
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Family Lawyer: FamilyAttorney, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

If your daughter's ex is mentally and physically abusing the kids, that's horrible! I am an attorney for the child in my state, like a guardian ad litem in yours. I hate hearing anything about children being abused.

You can call CPS but you have to know what's going on; your daughter can call CPS because she may have more knowledge of what's going on.

The best thing to do, however, is to get the visitation order and/or custody order changed. He should not be with the kids if he's abusing them! He may end up with no visitation, limited visitation or supervised visitation as long as your daughter can let the court know what's going on. How old are her children?

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Family Lawyer: FamilyAttorney, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

In OK, to get custody or visitation changed, the parent asking for the change or modification must be able to prove that: (1) since the entry of the most recent custody order, there has been a permanent, substantial and material change of conditions, as a result of which (2) the minor child or children would be substantially better off if the modification were granted.

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Customer reply replied 1 year ago
The children are 14 and 11
Customer reply replied 1 year ago
She is at dvisit filing a protective order. There was an assault on her last night
Family Lawyer: FamilyAttorney, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

This is something that generally requires a family lawyer because modification is not always granted, especially in your state where it says it must be a permanent change. That may be hard to prove sometimes and that is not the requirement in other states. A good family lawyer will be able to assess the situation and do everything possible to get this modified. From what you're telling me, this is serious and visitation should be stopped immediately. She may be able to get an emergency order to get into court quickly and stop this before the kids get hurt.

If you need names of attorneys in her area, just let me know and I'm happy to help you with that. I do that for my customers here.

Thank you for that information!

The kids are old enough -- that's good. They may be able to tell the judge what is going on, and if they don't want to talk to the judge, they may be able to write what is going on and have your daughter file on their behalf. I would wait to call CPS until you have a lawyer on board unless he's supposed to see the kids soon. If so, you may need to have her call CPS because you don't want him to have the kids again. If the kids are saying they are being abused, I'm sure they are. That's horrible and it has to be taken care of immediately.

Oh geez, I'm so sorry.

She really needs a family lawyer but she should be able to get this changed.

Just let me know if you want me to find family lawyers for you. The kids are hurting, I'm sure, as is she, so they probably don't even want to see him.

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Family Lawyer: FamilyAttorney, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

I'm so sorry for your daughter and her kids! That's just awful. I hope the protective order includes the kids. That would be a great way to protect them immediately and stop visitation.

It may not include the kids though.

Whether it does or doesn't, it's still important to bring this into court asap so that the visitation order can be changed. If he assaulted her, and the kids are old enough to say what's going on, modification should be a lot easier to get. I just hope everyone's okay.

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Customer reply replied 1 year ago
She said she would like help but there is only one income for the family so it will be hard for her to have money up front. And the kids are with their dad until friday he is already yelling at the school
Family Lawyer: FamilyAttorney, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

I apologize -- I'm having computer issues -- it's locking up otherwise I'd answer right away.

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Family Lawyer: FamilyAttorney, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

That's terrible about the fact the kids are already with the father. I hope the protective order can include the kids.

Even if she gets LegalAid, she needs someone on her side. She might be able to work out something with them. It's going to be hard for her to do this herself.

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Customer reply replied 1 year ago
Where does she need to go to get this custody changed
Family Lawyer: FamilyAttorney, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

Please let me know if you need more information. I'm happy to give it. I'm sure there are Legal Aids near her. Usually there are a bunch in each state. She can look for a pro bono attorney but they are hard to find.

https://www.probono.net/ok/

This site can be a start for her. It has pro bono and legalaid listed.

Thanks for letting me help you, and thanks in advance for rating me. Feel free to come back and ask me additional questions whenever you want. I'm here every day.

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Family Lawyer: FamilyAttorney, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

The District Courts in your state have Family Courts. That's where she needs to get this changed. She should go back to the court where she got it in the first place unless it was in another county. If so, she can try to change it in her county.

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Family Lawyer: FamilyAttorney, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

Hi, just checking in to see if you still need help with your question and if my answer was helpful for you or if there is any more information that you need. Thanks!

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