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My suggestion would be to not talk to him directly as it may get tense and difficult. There is a free state service that can help you file for custody and establish child support. Here is a link....https://des.az.gov/services/child-and-family/arizona-child-support-services
You can contact them and they can intervene on your behalf.
Let me know if you have any specific questions.