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Yes and no, a minor can never actually chose who to live with. However, what they can do if there is a motion filed with the court to change their custody or living arrangements they can file an affidavit that expresses their wishes as to who to live with. The judge is then required to consider their wishes but it is always a decision of the judge and never entirely up to the child. However, at that age the judge is almost certainly going to do what the child prefers. However, it must be presented by the child, not someone else telling the judge this is what the child wants.
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