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Lets start with some background information; a divorce can either be contested or not contested.
Uncontested; Now the fastest, (and by far the least expensive) way to get a divorce is if you can agree on the terms. If you can agree on "who gets what" there is not a need for attorneys...this will cut the costs to a very small amount (court fees)
Contested; if you can not agree, this is a contested divorce. To proceed you need an attorney or need to act as your own attorney (very bad idea). Here the parties present evidence to the court on "who gets what" and the court decides. This takes longer and involves attorney fees for both sides.
Here...if your spouse is not going to cooperate, you first need to hire a lawyer.
The lawyer CAN secure a divorce for you.
I suspect it may be costly (particularly if he is in a foreign country...the service of process will be a bit more complex)...but you can obtain this.
Make sure the lawyer you hire has experience in service of process for persons in a foreign country.
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