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I am self employed interior designer living in Virginia and I have primary custody of my three children. My estranged husband also lives in Virginia and has a steady income with bonus opportunities each year. We have never legally established child support amounts. My story is long and perhaps not necessary... so, my short question is: Isn't it normal course to average a self-employed income rather than to use one year for child support calculation? We have been legally separated for 12 years and have lived separate and apart the entire time. We attempted mediation during the first year however my husband was kicked out during the process of negotiating the sale of our home in 2005 and before we could establish child support. He has never agreed to and/or had a legal obligation to pay child support but has paid what he felt was fair all these years. I have sought legal advice numerous times in an effort to get divorced from him but it has proven to be an expensive proposition to navigate with my difficult ex. I would like to finalize my divorce now in a peaceful and expeditious way. Is it fair to ask him to average my last three years of income in order to have a better snap shot of how much I earn?
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Family Law
Expert:  Ely replied 1 year ago.

Hello and welcome to JustAnswer. Please note: This is general information for educational purposes only and is not legal advice. No specific course of action is proposed herein, and no attorney-client relationship or privilege is formed by speaking to an expert on this site. By continuing, you confirm that you understand and agree to these terms.

For self-employed incomes, the Court has discretion. The Judge may either use a mean (average), or a median (middle number) or mode (whatever occurs most often) depending on your income, the regularity with which you get paid, etc.

It is absolutely fair to ask that they average three years of income. However, the ex does not have to agree. If they do not agree, the Judge makes a decision based on what they believe is the fairest representation of your income over the year(s).

So there IS some subjectivity there.

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Expert:  Ely replied 1 year ago.
Hello again. This is a courtesy check in to see if you needed anything else in regards ***** ***** question because you never responded or replied positively. I am simply touching base. Let me know. Thanks!

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