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In joint legal custody, if we cannot come to an agreement on a matter, for example, where our child should go to private school, how is the matter resolved? I will have primary physical custody
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Family Lawyer: JD 1992, Lawyer replied 1 year ago
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If the order doesn't address it, and usually it will state who has the right to determine the school, then you will have to go back to court. However, if you have the right to determine primary physical custody you would have the right to determine what public school the child had to attend and so you could make the argument that you should also have the right to determine the private school.

You will want to discuss this issue with the lawyer because this is an issue that should have been addressed in the original order.

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Customer reply replied 1 year ago
there isnt an order. we are only separated at this time and are trying to negotiate matters. he wants there to be joint legal custody, but since we rarely agree on matters, i just see this causing issues. is having sole legal custody the only way around this?
Family Lawyer: JD 1992, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

No, you can have joint custody and just have this matter addressed by the court's order. Your lawyer will know everything that needs to be addressed and if you have it the order then that prevents any arguing later.

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Customer reply replied 1 year ago
what do you mean? he wont agree ahead of time to give me the ultimate decision in where our child goes to school, for example. i dont want to have to go to court every time we dont agree on a matter. id be in court A LOT. can it be in the decree that we have joint but in cases where we cannot come to a decision, that i as the primary custodian makes the ultimate decision?
Family Lawyer: JD 1992, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

You can have anything in the order that the judge says. As I said, your lawyer should know all of the spots where there are likely to be problems in the future and then have the court issue orders on those areas.

Your situation is the same as everyone else's in a divorce, you want to have specific orders on everything.

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Family Lawyer: JD 1992, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

You can have the judge order that one party makes the decisions as well, that was the way it used to be done.

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Customer reply replied 1 year ago
unfortunately, i dont see my soon to be ex spouse agreeing to this....ESPECIALLY if money is involved.
Family Lawyer: JD 1992, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

I understand. The issue then becomes one of fighting in court to get what you want, which is going to cost him to fight. Unfortunately, that's the only choice if you can't agree.

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I do value the community, but unfortunately some of the attorneys aren't knowledgeable and try to pass off a poor response
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