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Our granddaughter has been living with us past 18 months.

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Our granddaughter has been living...
Our granddaughter has been living with us for the past 18 months. The only time she was with her mother was 1 month a year ago when she went into a homeless shelter. So we have been taking care of her without financial assistance for the past year. The mother is in the area, she sees our granddaughter occasionally; stops by for a visit or takes her out to eat, but has not taken her for overnight stays and is not doing anything for her financially. Would this qualify as "abandonment"?
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Family Lawyer: Olivia Kent, Family Law Attorney replied 1 year ago
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Abandonment occurs when a parent or guardian either desserts a child without regard for the child's health or safety or fails to provide necessary care for a child living with them. The child's mother has not abandoned the child under Either part of that definition. However that doesn't mean you still can't seek guardianship over your grand daughter – it just means you wouldn't necessarily receive guardianship under that particular element

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Family Lawyer: Olivia Kent, Family Law Attorney replied 1 year ago

You can argue constructive abandonment because the mother has effectively abandoned the child by choosing not to care for her. However she hasn't left her without regard for the childcare. She knows the child is safe in your care. It is somewhat of a technicality… But the constructive abandonment argument is nonetheless valid and beneficial to you

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Family Lawyer: Olivia Kent, Family Law Attorney replied 1 year ago

You can argue that it is in the best interest of the child to be in your care, that you are the only parents she has known and that you provide her with the physical contact and emotional support that she needs and her mother is essentially just a visitor in her life. There are never numerous courts that would allow you to argue child abandonment in addition to constructive child abandonment. I would assert boats under the category of abandonment.

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Family Lawyer: Olivia Kent, Family Law Attorney replied 1 year ago

Your best bet however is to attempt to get mom to agree to transfer custody until such time as she is able to care for her child, if that is something you are amenable to doing. Please let me know if you have additional questions or you need me to clarify anything.

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Family Lawyer: Olivia Kent, Family Law Attorney replied 1 year ago

* apologies for the typo. The word boat should have been BOTH.

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