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an ex-girlfriend is claiming that i am the father of her child, but she refuses to cooperate with paternity testing. I have asked her to cooperate many times. I want to establish paternity before committing to any obligations relative to the child. I reside in Durham NC. How can I force her into cooperating.
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You need to go to your local family court there in NC and request a hearing for paternity testing in this matter. If you go to the clerk's office there, they should have paperwork and forms that you can complete to summons her into court for a paternity test to establish the paternity of her child. You are probably better off if you make this court request because if she fails to show up for the DNA testing or any hearing on the matter and the DNA testing is not done, then the only way that she can claim paternity and child support is to turn around at a later date and summons you to court for child support and DNA testing. There really is no other way to force the issue except through a court order and if she fails to appear then there is nothing you can do about it except to ask the court to bar her from any claims against you until she has the paternity testing. However, by taking the matter to court yourself, you do establish that she is not entitled to any child support unless she takes the DNA testing (permits it for the child).

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