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My ex wife is withholding visitation for me she claims I need a court order every time for visitation she lives in Phoenix I live in Chicago so I only see him in the summers and in the divorce decree it says nothing about obtaining court orders every time I have visitation with him what can I do if she doesn't send my son to meet in the summer for visitation can she be held in contempt of court this is the second time she has done this
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I am sorry to hear about this. Please tell me what state the decree is from?

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
I live in Elgin I live in Elgin and she lives in Tempe Arizona the decree is from Illinois everything was done in other noisy at the time she was in Mexico that for so the final judgement she was in Mexico at the time so she defaulted but the final judgment was done in Illinois in the county of Kane she lives in Tempe Phoenix she is withholding custody from me claiming that I have to obtain a court order for visitation when in the final judgment it doesn't say every time I have visitation and I need to obtain a court order it just says every summer I will have visitation with my son for the whole summer so I am buying my ticket in a few days to go there and pick him up in May but if she doesn't have him or turn him over to me for my visitation so I can come back to Chicago and then later bring back to Arizona will she be held in contempt of court she does not follow the judgment
Customer reply replied 2 years ago
Please answer soon
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

Thank you.

It is not true that a court order is needed every time for visitation, unless the decree demands it. Someone in your situation may wish to enforce the matter via something called contempt. This is how parties enforce a court order. Upon a finding of contempt, she can be fined, admonished, or even imprisoned. You can get an attorney in AZ to do this, or do this yourself.

Many parties will agree to work something out simply at the threat of contempt. From your question it sounds like you already know about this, and this would be the way to enforce custody/visitation.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
I do not have a lot of money to spend on a lawyer so how can I file contempt on her myself
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

See here:

https://www.superiorcourt.maricopa.gov/SuperiorCourt/Self-ServiceCenter/Forms/FamilyCourt/index.asp

Scroll down to ENFORCE AN EXISTING FAMILY COURT ORDER, and then PARENTING TIME (VISITATION). This should get you started. NOTE that the decree also has to be domesticated in AZ from Illinois, which requires a quick separate petition as well.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
What do you mean domesticated
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago
See here:
http://www.clerkofcourt.maricopa.gov/eformsondemand/203.pdf
A judgment/decree from another state has to be domesticated in AZ prior to enforcing it. This is a very quick pleading and should not be an issue.
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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
Can u please tell me what u mean by domesticated? what does that mean
Customer reply replied 2 years ago
the degree states that Illinois has jurisdiction
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

Sure. "Domesticated" means registered with the Court in AZ, so it may be enforced. More information on this here:

http://www.clerkofcourt.maricopa.gov/eformsondemand/203.pdf

Yes, the original jurisdiction is in Illinois. However since both of you and the child now live in AZ, the enforcement jurisdiction has moved to AZ.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
But doesn't that mean if I do that and then I file contempt against her I would have to go to Arizona courts
Customer reply replied 2 years ago
No no I still lives in Illinois but she lives in Tempe Arizona
Customer reply replied 2 years ago
we do not live in the same state
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago
Ah, I am sorry. I thought you meant you live in Elgin, AZ. You live in Elgin, Illinois?
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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
I live in Elgin Illinois she lives in Phoenix Arizona I talk to a lawyer in Tempe Arizona she said that my ex can ever change that because of Person of Interest meaning me I still live here in Illinois
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago
Thank you.
Okay, then someone in your situation has an OPTION.
OPTION 1
Domesticate the decree in AZ, and file for enforcement via contempt in AZ. As discussed.
-https://www.superiorcourt.maricopa.gov/SuperiorCourt/Self-ServiceCenter/Forms/FamilyCourt/index.asp
-http://www.clerkofcourt.maricopa.gov/eformsondemand/203.pdf
OPTION 2
File for enforcement via contempt in Illinois.
-http://www.illinoislegalaid.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=home.dsp_content&contentID=5017
The problem is that once this happens, a contempt order is STILL DIFFICULT TO ENFORCE since she is in AZ. So one may have to domesticate the contempt order in AZ anyhow to enforce it.
One has either option here, and can do whichever one one feels is more practical.
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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
if I file contentment against her and there's a court hearing here in Illinois does that mean she has to show up here in Illinois and if she doesn't she will default and what does that mean
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

She would have to show up. If she does not, the Court may issue a bench warrant against her to have her arrested, fine her, order more child support, and/or do whatever else the Judge feels is necessary and equitable to resolve the issue.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
if she keeps this up came her custody be taken away and be given to me when she first of all defaulted on the final judgment and second of all I married and have a better job than she does and third of all she can't really take care of my son as good as he needs
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago
Simply denial of visitation is not enough to modify custody. To modify custody, you'd have to show that:
1) There has been a significant change n circumstance since the last order, and
2) You being a custodial parent is in the "best interest of the child." This is determined, but is not limited to, general stability of the parent, financial stability, indoctrination of the child in the current school and environment, household condition and living condition of the child, other persons living in the house, etc.
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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
I want to change my agreement and I want to change the visitation how can I do that and what is the age that the child has to be in order for him to make his own decision who he wants to live with
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago
This is a question outside the vein of the original topic. I would respectfully ***** ***** you open up another thread in regards ***** ***** of custody.
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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
Also dealer final decree states that she has left me and being Jessie's parents on his medical and on his school and keep me informed of things and give me her address but I have not done that so far in fact I called the school where my son Italian and I cannot get any information because she did not love me as his father and I cannot let myself as his father she would but she will never do that is she committing fraud
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago
This can be addressed as a side note in the contempt motion.
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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
But I mean she should be doing that can't that be like fraud if she's not
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago
Sorry, this would not constitute fraud under its civil or criminal definition.
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