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I am unmarried but have been with my significant other

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for 14 years. We...
I am unmarried but have been with my significant other for 14 years. We have a 8 year old daughter. I'm pregnant with our second child. He is currently seeing someone else he promised never to see again. I was gonna leave him but he talked me into trying to work things out. I asked him to put it in writing and he said he would. He said he'd give me full custody if he broke his promise. If I wrote it out and had him sign it would it stand in court? He promises he is not seeing her anymore. But I know he is. He got her pregnant last year and they had an abortion. Why I stayed???? For our daughter. What to do?
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Family Lawyer: Loren, Lawyer replied 1 year ago
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Good day. I am Loren, a licensed attorney, and I look forward to assisting you.

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Family Lawyer: Loren, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

Do you have any court orders in place regarding support or custody of the 8 yr old?

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Family Lawyer: Loren, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

Are you online with me?

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Customer reply replied 1 year ago
Please cancel this phone request. I paid for it and didn't get a call. I'm afraid I just been scammed for $60.
Customer reply replied 1 year ago
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Customer reply replied 1 year ago
No court orders in place.
Family Lawyer: Loren, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

The phone call was never accepted. You were not charged, as far as I see.

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Customer reply replied 1 year ago
My bank just called me and verified.
Family Lawyer: Loren, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

That was probably for the original question. If you had accepted the phone call I would get a message to call you.

In any event, thank you for the additional information. I am sorry to hear of your dilemma. I realize how frustrating this is for you and I hope to provide you information which is accurate and useful, even though it may not be the news you were hoping to get.

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Customer reply replied 1 year ago
My man don't know I know about his visits with her. How do I approach it? Just file for custody?
Family Lawyer: Loren, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

Unfortunately, if you petition the court for custody, the court will look to the best interests of the child and, as the statute and common law decisions provide, the courts try to keep both parents involved in the children's life.

So, he will not be taking your children from you. He can not do that without a showing of the risk of harm if the children are in your custody.

The same is true with you. You can show the court the agreement, but they will not enforce it, absent a showing the children are in danger by being in his care.

File for custody. The court will review the living situation. Generally, they will favor some sort of joint parenting.

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Family Lawyer: Loren, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

I realize this is probably not the answer you were hoping to receive. Also, please remember that this is not necessarily a moral judgement on my part. As a professional, however, I am sometimes placed in the position of having to deliver news which is not favorable to a customer's legal position, but accurately reflects their position under the law. I hate it, but it happens and I only ask that you not penalize me with a bad or poor rating for having to deliver less than favorable news.

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Family Lawyer: Loren, Lawyer replied 1 year ago

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