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Hi my husband had an affair. Im dealing with that issue separately. However the woman that he had an affair with constantly harasses me and I have proof of it with phone calls and text. She constantly sends me text messages sent between he and her that she knows will upset me. She will call me to tell me that he has been over there and rub it in my face that they were sleeping together. I block her on social media and she still finds means to stalk me on the internet. I am tired of being harassed by her. Can I sue her so that she will leave me alone?
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I'm Lucy, and I'd be happy to answer your questions today.

Yes, you can sue her. There's a legal cause of action called "intentional infliction of emotional distress," which occurs when a person engages in an extreme or outrageous pattern of behavior that serves no legitimate purpose and is done solely to upset the other person. Calling and texting you about her affair with your husband is going to easily fit within that definition. The more calls, the more graphic the texts and the pictures, the more a judge will likely award you.

One of the things a judge will look at in this scenario is whether there is a physical manifestation of the distress you're being caused. This isn't required, but it can be helpful evidence. That could include bills if you've needed to talk to a therapist, or if you're seeing a doctor for anxiety, insomnia, depression, anything like that as a result of her behavior, that can all increase your damages. If you don't have any medical or therapy bills, you can seek up to $3,000 in Small Claims Court.

https://www.judiciary.state.nj.us/prose/10290_small_claims.pdf

But if it's more than that, or if you have bills showing that she's caused you physical problems through her behavior, a local attorney may be able to help you sue for more in the Superior Court.

Also, what she's doing falls within the definition of stalking in New Jersey. b.A person is guilty of stalking, a crime of the fourth degree, if he purposefully or knowingly engages in a course of conduct directed at a specific person that would cause a reasonable person to fear for his safety or the safety of a third person or suffer other emotional distress. (emphasis mine) You could file a police report and ask them to contact her to see if that helps convince her to back off.

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