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I have a lady who is asking me to take a paternity test 17

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I have a lady who is asking me to take a paternity test for her 17 year old daughter. She says I might be a potential father. How should I proceed with this, and is there any way she can go back 17 years and get child support?
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I am sorry to hear about this situation. At this point, someone in your situation may wish to decline the DNA test.

She has the right to go to court and request a paternity suit, in which case the Court can order you to take the test. However, the onus would be on her to file this request. Why voluntarily submit and make it easy for her?

She can file for a paternity suit up to the child being 23 years of age.

Under Ohio Revised Code 3111.13, the parent cannot ask for child support if (a) the child is 3 years of age or older at the time paternity is requested and (b) prior to the filing, the alleged father had no knowledge and could not reasonably have known of his alleged paternity for the child. So if the court believes both of these are true, even if one is the father, no retroactive child support should be granted.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
Does the Ohio code mirror the codes in oregon for the basis on child support?
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

Oh gosh, I am so sorry - I thought this was in OHIO. Please give me a second to amend my Answer.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
No problem, I could have chosen the wrong state by accident. Not sure at this point. I would like to call, but at this time I'm at work.
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

My apologies again for the miscommunication. See below, adjusted for Oregon.

She has the right to go to court and request a paternity suit, in which case the Court can order you to take the test. However, the onus would be on her to file this request. Why voluntarily submit and make it easy for her?

There is no time limitation for establishing paternity in the State of Oregon. But since child support may be paid up to 21, in theory, 21 is the practical cut off date.

"Support may be ordered from the date of birth, ORS 109.155 (4), although as a practical matter, most courts will not assess support for periods of time when the parents cohabited. On paternity actions commenced administratively, support may be set back to the date of a parent’s last application for state child support program services, or the last referral to the child support program from the public welfare agency. ORS 416.422. This obligation is known as “past support.” See also OAR(###) ###-####" Source HERE.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
She is not asking or wanting child support so she says. She is requesting a dna home test to avoid any legal actions on child support. Thoughts?
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

Frankly speaking, that is malarkey. The only non-sentimental reason why she would want a DNA test is to see if you are the father.... for child support purposes.

She may not know how to file for paternity, and/or that an informal test carries no authority and must be done via a court order to count. Someone in your situation may wish not to correct any of her misconceptions, and refuse any test anyhow.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
Agreed, on that note, a court order test I have to take correct?
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

Yes. Otherwise, she can't make you and even if you agree, an informal test (not court order) carries no weight before the Court unless you agree not to challenge said informal test's results.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
I could play into the non court order, and if she tries to proceed with support, I could challenge the results and force her to go thorough the court?
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

Right. But if you test positive, then this may embolden her to actually file. Once the Court confirms the match with a second, sanctioned test, you are on the hook.

By completely denying any informal test, she may be at a loss as to what to do next, or, disheartened enough to drop the matter.

It is your decision, of course.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
Will the fact I had no idea this cold even existed until about 2 months ago carry any weight?
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

Not really; sorry.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
Sorry *child not cold
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

I understood the intended meaning from the context. No, it makes no difference.

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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
If I could convince her to give me something in writing stating that she releases me from any financial obligation, would that hold up in court?
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago

This is up to the Court. The Court can choose to enforce or not to enforce a voluntary, informal child support agreement. So this would be a risk, as there may be a chance that it does not hold up.

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Hello again. I am checking in because you have not rated positively. To me this means you may have another question. Please let me know – I am simply touching base. Thanks!
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