I've been married 31 years ,
My husband walked out right after my daughter's wedding did not give me any notice prior, we were still on good terms and business partners as well.
We have not been sexually active for sometime not sure how long.
My husband had planned it for a while apparently because he cleaned out his office to call our tax returns he actually borrowed my car while I was working and had a person helping move , he signed a pretty expensive lease for one year in an apartment .
We own a large four bedroom home with a mortgage.
The morning he walked out on October 12 he just pretty much said he was leaving and I asked him if he was going on vacation or a business trip and he said no I'm leaving you .. I said why didn't you give me a chance why don't we talk about this before I even asked him to go to counseling right now he declined and walked out .
After he walked out I texted him and asked him again if he would be interested in marriage
counseling for our adult children and our marriage, he said yes.
That was about a week after
Just walked away.
The marriage counseling didn't work out he already made up his mind. He has paid the mortgage for the last two months and those were his terms only. When he walked he said he would pay the mortgage through the end of the year. I have a small business and a second job I make about 15% of what he makes. Our tax returns are pretty amusing actually
I am a W9 independent contractor, The 2014 tax returns reflect that I made -$500. I did some research if I was to fill out the longform for spousal support
it wouldn't be -$500 not if I was completely honest. So since we weren't sexually active for quite some time and it's not it wasn't
just me.. Will I be able to collect alimony
and or money in the meantime to back to school or train to make more money.
I have no retirement, he does.
He actually ruined the wedding the cat was let out of the bag the night before to a lot of people except for me .. His sister said something in front of my children
Information he shared with her
My kids went to my husband he completely lied and said we were on good terms that there were any problems. Basically we were on good terms however he had plans to walk out on me right after the wedding but lied about it.
I had no idea. Will I be able to collect any alimony after 31 years of marriage ?