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If the father actually follows through with the lawsuit, then you will want to get an attorney. However, so long as the court terminated the father's parental rights and granted you the adoption, there is no real legal threat from the father. Once the rights have been terminated and the adoption granted, the court will not reconsider the matter and the father is doing nothing but wasting the court's time, and you have nothing to fear as regards ***** ***** as the adoptive parents.
As for your concerns of your grandchild being abducted, the school needs to be made aware of your concerns that your child may be kidnapped so they do not release your child to anyone but you. And you might also notify local police of your concerns. However with nothing more than a threat of suit from the father, there is not sufficient legal basis to get a restraining order at this time.
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