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I am so sorry to read about your difficulties.
Your option here as her Heath Care Proxy is to file Emergency Motion with the Court to force the place she is being transported to to disclose her status to you so that you can properly make decisions for her.
You should also file Petition for Guardianship to take away decision making from her. You can obtain guardianship forms at your local Courthouse.