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I am sorry to hear about this situation.
First, check your decree. This is not a statutory law question, but a question for the custody decree. The decree should state one of the following:
1) the domiciliary parent has the right to make educational choices
2) the domiciliary parent has to have the agreement of the other parent to make educational choices
3) the domiciliary parent can make the educational choice, but can hear input from the other parent
Sometimes, the decree will provide something pother alternative, such as the other parent having the right to choose, or, it will be silent if this issue never came up.
If the decree is one of the three above or an alternative, this controls. To change it, one would have to file a pleading to modify the decree and show why this request would be in the best interest of the child. If the decree is silent on the matter, one can file a motion for clarification and ask the Court to CLARIFY who has the right to make the educational decision, or whether it be in tandem, etc.
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