I'm Doug, and I'm very sorry to hear of your situation. My goal is to provide you with excellent service today.
Your primary need at this time is to get your Response on file so that your husband does not obtain a default judgment against you. While you will eventually need an attorney to assist you, in the meantime you can use this form to file your responsive pleading: http://19thcircuitcourt.state.il.us/crt_forms/Documents/family/Response-DivorcePetition_090804.pdf
All you will need to do, if the suit for divorce is not in Lake County, is to look at the summons and place the proper county name and Judicial District in the heading of the form.
You will fill out the form and mail the original and 3 copies to the court with a return envelope and the filing fee. Call the court for the filing fee and send a money order or cashier's check---not a personal check for the fees along with your Response.
You must serve your husband by mail with a copy of your response. Along with the response you will need to prepare a proof of Service. The original of the Proof of Service will need to be filed with the court as well. This can be done after you get the copies of the response back and mail one to your husband. Here is the format for the Proof of Service. You can easily create this document on your own computer, or pay a small fee to print it out: http://www.formsworkflow.com/d69066.aspx
Do be sure that you retain an attorney though as soon as possible because the paperwork necessary for the divorce will be quite complex and you will in all likelihood need help in finalizing your divorce.
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I wish you and yours the best in 2015,