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I am getting a divorce. I just found out my husband spent

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I am getting a divorce. I just found out my husband spent our community funds on hookers. Does he have to pay me back that money?
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Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago
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I am sorry to hear about this situation.
This is at the discretion of the Court. More often that not, the Court is not going to make one pay back the money per se, however, the division of property may be favored towards the innocent party, and, decisions for alimony may also be affected by his actions.
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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
I discovered the information by logging in to his email accounts. Is this information allowed? We are not going to court. We settled through mediation. He also had an affair. He was required to pay me back the money he spent on the affair. Should I confront him? More than anything I want him to know that I know.
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago
Did you have shared access to his email accounts? Or did you steal/hack the password(s)?
This is not an answer, but an Information Request. I need this information to answer your question. Please reply, so I can answer your question. Thank you in advance.
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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
I guessed the password
Customer reply replied 2 years ago
Passwords. There are three accounts, all the same password.
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago
Thank you. Guessing as a means to access still means hacking. Hacking into someone else's account even if a spouse's is illegal in CA under Cal. Penal Code § 502.
As such, it may not be the best thing to disclose how one knows about the prostitution if this may lead to an understanding that the password ***** hacked.
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Customer reply replied 2 years ago
He knows that I have logged in to his account. He is not happy about it. I want him to know that I know.
Family Lawyer: Ely, Counselor at Law replied 2 years ago
Okay. Well then if one chooses to disclose this information about hacking into another's account, this is their choice.
I discovered the information by logging in to his email accounts. Is this information allowed?We are not going to court. We settled through mediation. He also had an affair. He was required to pay me back the money he spent on the affair. Should I confront him? More than anything I want him to know that I know.
I would be wary of acknowledging breaking the law and perhaps it may be best not to use this as evidence. However, this is your decision.
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