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Hi I have a question. I live in California. I am lagally divorced and have a 11 year son. I shared his custody with his father and I do not get any child or spousal support.
I have started dating a guy who is going through divorce with his wife. He has three children age 12,9,5. He will pay child support.
My question is if I marry this person , what are my obligations towards child support to his ex-wife when he is alive and working ? Also if in case of death what happens to the child support?
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Family Lawyer: FamilyAnswer, Lawyer replied 3 years ago
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Good evening. I certainly understand the situation and your concern. The obligation to pay support is his obligation. However, if you marry this man and have joint bank accounts and pool your income, you essentially will be helping to pay. You would not be liable but essentially if he is paying support, you would be paying as well, since it would be an expense you have to incur/share. Now, if he were to pass away, they could likely go after his estate for any unpaid support but you would not be liable to pay for his children, after he passes.
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Customer reply replied 3 years ago
Thank you for your answer. I plan to keep accounts and expenses separate if/after I marry him. In that case his financial obligations will be his correct?
Do you recommend I can put something like I will not be hold responsible for financial obligations in pre nuptual .? I and him both are professionals with higher and equivalent income and his ex spouse does not earn much.
Family Lawyer: FamilyAnswer, Lawyer replied 3 years ago
Yes, if you did that then there would be no dispute. Moreover, you can enter into a prenup advising of that BUT it would be between you and him. It would not have any legal effect between you and his Ex.
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Customer reply replied 3 years ago
Ok. Do I have any legal effect between me and his ex ?
Family Lawyer: FamilyAnswer, Lawyer replied 3 years ago
No. His obligations to pay are between him and her and she could not just go after you, to pay his support, if he failed to do so.
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Customer reply replied 3 years ago
Great . Thank you.
Customer reply replied 3 years ago
One last question, this is true under california family law . Correct ? we live in California
Family Lawyer: FamilyAnswer, Lawyer replied 3 years ago
You are welcome. Yes, it is. Please let me know if there is anything else, as I would be happy to respond. If not, please rate my help at this time, so I can receive the proper credit. Thank you.
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Customer reply replied 3 years ago
Will do so. You have been a great help.
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Family Lawyer: FamilyAnswer, Lawyer replied 3 years ago
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Family Lawyer: FamilyAnswer, Lawyer replied 3 years ago
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