Thank you for the additional information. This is certainly a scary situation. There is a difference between him just walking out on the marriage
and a situation where something bad has happened to him. You stated above that there was no marital discord or reason to believe he would just leave, so it is certainly matter for the police to investigate, before taking any actions through the court. You can file for divorce
and I have provided you a link with the forms that you can use, to start the process. Since he can not be found, it would likely have to be published on, so the Judge could proceed with the proceedings. If something happened to him, the items which you mentioned above would likely go to you, absent a will saying something contrary. If you ask to be awarded all those things in the divorce and it would have at the discretion of the Judge. The problem you are going to face is that this is a missing person case and the Judge may want to wait prior to signing anything and ordering the divorce. If you started to see money missing from the bank account and other things which lead you to believe he is alive, then you certainly would want to take action, at that point in time.
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