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Thank you for your question. Please permit me to assist you with your concerns..Admitting an affair does not necessarily make your divorce 'at fault'--you and your spouse may still choose to treat this as 'no fault' by not bringing this up in your petition. There are many good reasons for that--at fault claims are generally longer to process, are more expensive in both time and resources, require a longer process of hearings, and may even require an attorney, something that you can generally forgo if you are seeking a simply no-fault process. As for alimony, generally that is still at the wish of the spouses--no judge would compel alimony or spousal support, not even in a 'for cause' divorce since that would still be at the spouse's petition request. It would, however, make the courts far more likely to be lenient toward your spouse if she ever changes her mind (something she can also choose to do prior to divorce being finalized) and in seeking alimony.Good luck.