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My fiance & I are being cyber stalked by his ex wife, Im

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My fiance' & I are being cyber stalked by his ex wife, I'm so tired of her trying to get any information about us or trying to get into our relationship/family. We have a 5 month old baby & I'm nervous she will do something crazy to interfere with my finace's JOB. We've been telling her to leave us alone, have notified our local police and her local police. We've been dealing with her for a year now. What can I do to get her to not be able to contact us, try to get information about us and anything else.
Submitted: 4 years ago.
Category: Family Law
Expert:  Joseph replied 4 years ago.
Can you provide some specifics examples of what she has done? Thank you.
Customer: replied 4 years ago.

We've had (& I've saved) emails of her & I talking/arguing back & forth. In more than one I've repeatedly said to leave us alone.

Months later she will email my fiance' & we tell her to stop, leave us alone.


He doesn't use that email anymore.


She asks anyone who knows Eric & I any questions (I have friends who tell me she's contacted them once or multiple times)


My Pinterest account was hacked along with my facebook at one time. I've reported to those sites & haven't been able to be hacked again (I did get an email from Pinterest saying I've tried to sign in with an incorrect password- which wasn't me)


She continues to try to get any information through mutual people, mine & Eric's friends/family.


I know I/we can't stop her from talking to whoever she pleases but I want to at least do something so she knows we're serious about making her stop.


My fiance' is just afraid she will find out where we live(which she does know what city somehow) and try to mess up his job he's worked so hard for to get.


I've spoken with our local police and her town police & as far as I know she has had a warning of all this - to stop & leave us be.

Customer: replied 4 years ago.

I've been interested in getting a no-contact order or anything I can get on her. But I am wondering if it covers the way she is doing things ... -talking to mutual people to get information about Eric me or our baby.

Expert:  Joseph replied 4 years ago.

Thank you for the information, just a few more questions:


1. Has she ever threatened violence?


2. Has she attempted to gain anything (like money or the purchase of items with the information)?


3. Do you reside in the same city, county or state?


4. Has she made any false statements about you?


Thank you.

Customer: replied 4 years ago.

she's not threaened violence... to me or eric - she possibly could/has said to people in person.

her mother actually came to an apartment we lived at asking for money...


Eric & I now live in Lancaster OH, as far as we know she still lives in Arcanum/Greenville OH


Yes, she's made multiple false statements about me, to Eric & others.

Expert:  Joseph replied 4 years ago.
There may be something in regards to the false statements. Can you provide a few examples? Thank you.