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Im married and am probably about To go through a devorse I

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I'm married and am probably about To go through a devorse I stopped paying on my car that my wife drives. Her name is XXXXX XXXXX car as a co driver to help her credit. Wellshe want get a job so ther for I told her I wasn't going to pay the payment. What will happen to me. They got a lawyer probably to file for divorce and to get that car to wear I have to pay for it. What will happen or what can happen
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I am sorry for your situation.

If both of your names are XXXXX XXXXX car, then it sounds like the vehicle is marital property pursuant to Tex. Family Code Sec 3.001 and 3.002, et seq. As such, the car belongs to both of you.

You have no obligation to pay for the vehicle. If she gets the vehicle in the divorce, then she has to pay for it. The Court is not generally going to make you pay for the vehicle unless you get it in the divorce. So their threats are actually more "bark than bite," and you are not in any danger from the Court for not paying on the vehicle.

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Customer reply replied 5 years ago
Ok thanks. I have one more question. If they make stuff up about me can a lawyer have something done to stop me from seeing my kid. I have no priors have never been in trouble. Her mother told my mom that I have said sexual things to my 3 year old. It is all lies. What will happen if they go lie about me to a lawyer and try to keep my kid from me
The answer is YES. If the attorney convinces the Judge that you have been inappropriate with your son, your visitation may be limited to no overnights and/or supervisory only.

You may wish to retain counsel yourself, so as not to be overwhelmed by her attorney's attacks. Please, consider this referral service:

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Doing this, you should be able to find an attorney you are confident with and whom you can trust, and who is available ASAP.

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Customer reply replied 5 years ago
Hey I have another question Me and my wife are actually going through with the divorce and she is seeking alamoni. I read on the Internet that if the person seeking the alamoni can try if they have been a victim of domestic abuse. My wife called the cops on me say 2 years ago and told them I hit her. Not true. But my question is I was never convicted of domestic violence It was reduced to a class c mistameanor And have nothing on my record saying anything about that situation. Does she have grounds to get alamoni from me even though I was never convicted of that crime
Have you been married for ten or more years?
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Customer reply replied 5 years ago
No 3 years
What year of your marriage did the family violence occur AND what happened in the end? Did the charge get dismissed, or, did you get deferred adjudication?
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Customer reply replied 5 years ago
2010 was the year and it was reduced to a class c misdemeanor and I payed a fine
Okay, thank you.

It is VERY important that you check the dates on this, first of all. WHEN the matter was settled, and WHEN she filed for divorce.

First of all, it sounds like you received a conviction for the charge. If you paid a fine, then likely you got a conviction. Double check on this.

According to Tex. Fam. Code Sec. 8.051, if you were convicted for the charge that could be defined as domestic violence IN TWO YEARS before the divorce, then she can can request alimony.

So check:
1) if you were convicted or not, and
2) if so, if it was WITHIN 2 YEARS of the matter ending and her filing.

If so, even then, alimony is only ordered if it is needed, per the following subjective factors:

(1) the financial resources of the spouse seeking maintenance, including the community and separate property and liabilities apportioned to that spouse in the dissolution proceeding, and that spouse’s ability to meet the spouse’s needs independently;
(2) the education and job skills of the spouses;
(3) the length of the marriage;
(4) the age, employment history, earning ability, and health condition of the spouse seeking maintenance;
(5) the ability of the spouse from whom maintenance is requested to meet that spouse’s personal needs;
(6) the dissipation of any marital assets;
(7) the financial resources of the spouses;
(8) the contribution by one spouse to the education or earning capacity of the other;
(9) any pre-marital property;
(10) the contribution of a spouse as homemaker;
(11) Any marital misconduct of the spouse seeking maintenance; and
(12) the efforts of the spouse seeking maintenance to pursue available employment counseling.

So she may not even get it, even if she is eligible for it.

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Customer reply replied 5 years ago
I was not convicted it never went to court. The d a told me it want go on my record and I just checked my record and there is nothing criminal on my record so therefor I couldn't have been convicted. I mean I just bought a pistol last week. If I have a domestic violence charge I couldn't have even purchased the pistol
Okay friend - good - thank you.

She only even qualifies for consideration of alimony if:

-you have been convicted of domestic violence within 2 years of the filing for divorce; or
-she or a child she has special physical or mental needs; or
-you have been married for 10+ years.

Since neither is the fact, she cannot get alimony here.

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