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I have 3 children with my girlfriend of 5 years she is having an affair with another man, and she doent know that I know. She has been lying to me telling me she is going places, but she always goes to his house instead, which I have seen by locating her cell phone, I am very concerned for my children which I believe there mother has told them to lie about it as well . She has nothing no job money or even a car, I dont want to do anything to cause her to do anything spitefull, because she has been spitefull in the past, going as far as to file false police reports. I am desprite and in alot of pain and dont know what to do.
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What you should do depends on what you want out of the situation... What do you want to happen?

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As far as custody goes, if you have not done so, you need to establish legal paternity of the children through a paternity action. After that, it functions much like a divorce. Custody and visitation are established based on the best interests of the children

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Customer reply replied 7 years ago
I just want her out of my house and to share custody of the children
Family Lawyer: JPEsq., Lawyer replied 7 years ago
Has legal paternity been established? Who owns the home?
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