Family Law Questions? Ask a Family Lawyer Online.
You can request the court to speak with your daughter about whom she wants to live with. The court may interview her.
In the meantime, you can contact the CA Bar Association for a referral service and see if you would qualify for legal aid or pro bono assistance in this matter. Here is that contact information
If you have any questions that I might be able to help you with to represent yourself, please let me know here.