First step here (and unfortunately at some point you will need an attorney to resolve it) is that you need to get the child into therapy and dad should not object to that because it will help identify the reason for the behavior. Second step depends on what the therapist says as to the reasons for the behavior and, if you cannot afford an attorney to go to court which is where you will need to go if the dad will not agree to a change in writing, begin working with the child to resolve the issues. The botXXXXX XXXXXne is that unless dad agrees to the change in writing you can do nothing to change the agreement without an attorney and going to court. Regardless of what you decide regarding an attorney or court, the therapist is still the required first step because you would need that report to present to the court if you decide to go there to convince them for the change.
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