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My daughter who is 17 wants to move in with me and my family.

Her mother says she can...
My daughter who is 17 wants to move in with me and my family. Her mother says she can go. What do I do as far as the courts and child support? My daughters new school wants documents of custodial rights. I cant seem to find them. How do I find this information?
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What are the custody orders? Who pays child support? Is this all via court order or informal?



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Customer reply replied 8 years ago
I pay child support. I have weekend visitation. All by court order.
So now you want to "switch" it around, so to speak, right, and want to reflect that in Court record, right?
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Customer reply replied 8 years ago
that's correct. My daughter and her mother are not seeing eye to eye.
Just want to stop my paying support and have the proper paper work for her new school. Dont even want to seek support from her mother.
Excellent. What you have to do is file a Joint Motion for Modification. It's quite simple. Both of you should sign off on it, but only one really needs to show up at court for it. Go to legalzoom.com or nolo.com for the motion. File. Call the court and ask if you can come earlier and be heard on the "uncontested docket" - some courts hear uncontested cases such as a name change or an agreed divorce early in the morning or perhaps one day a week. Check with the court's coordinator/clerk. Go in to prove up. This means that once your name is XXXXX XXXXX must approach the bench and tell the judge what you are asking of the court. "Proving up" something means verbally asking the court for legal relief, on the record. Yes, you will likely be audiotaped. The process is easy - simply follow the format of your petition (make sure to have a copy with you). For example, begin with "Your Honor, my full name is XXXXX XXXXX am here today requesting a name. My permanent residence is ____. The reason for my request is ____. Just read down your petition. The Judge may interrupt you to confirm a fact or ask a question. Assuming everything goes according to plan, the Judge will then sign the Order. Case closed. Next case....

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