I am located in California, orange county. We have been together for 4.5 years, we were engaged for 2 years. In sept. of this year we had our cival marriage
and we have been preparing our religious ceremony in cancun, mx for 2 years, which was scheduled to take place dec. 30th. Last week friday the 20th his mother
and i had a discussion about her dress and she brought out all sorts of other issues and the conversation quickly turned sour. The issues were because i didnt include my sister in law as part of my bridal party, but to me they were so minor i couldnt believe this was happening. Since that day my husband changed with 4 days! On thanksgiving he told he was not going to spend it with me, that he wanted to be with his family. While living with him i developed a panic attack disorder and that day i had a severe one and had to call 911 and i was taken to the hospital. While i was in the hospital he went to our home and took his clothes and called my sister, mom and dad and asked them to go to the hopital and pick me up. I called him while in the er to et him know where i was going to be, and all he said was "i am not going to be there, you should be with your family", this was his way of ending our relationship. I went to the apartment and saw that his belongings were gone, so my parents helped me pack my stuff and left. I am devastated, sad, confused, with all the wedding things ready, worthless, and hurt. I have a hard time even chewing food. So my mom made me make an emergency appoint with a psychologist yesterday, who ended diagnosing me with major depression and major panic attack disorder as a result of what happened. Now i am still in shock that he changed in less than a week. When he took his belongings he also took my passport and social security card, i had to call the police in order to get it back. We also had $17,000 saved for the wedding, some portion of it was a gift. I pulled that money out the next day before he did. He is upset i took the money because he wanted to split the money. He said that he would give me my passport and social security card if i gave him his portion of the money. But i need the money for therapy, i can't work, i can barely even eat. I am devastated and humiliated in front of all mu family and friends. What can i do?