Thank you for your question.
By virtue of your son moving to Oklahoma to live with the other parent, you may not be entitled to child support for that period of time. As such, that parent may make a motion with the court for you to pay child support for the support of your child while in the custody of the other parent. It is likely that regardless of what occurs, he will have to maintain the health insurance.
Additionally, the other parent may have the right to change the status as sole custodian and obtain temporary orders to be able to make custodial decisions for the child. Again, by virtue of the child living with the other parent, the other parent may have right, even if temporarily, as a custodial parent.
As long as the child's needs are met, you can decide to put the money in a college fund in lieu of support. However,r this would need to be voluntary because in Kansas parents do not have an obligation to pay for college for children they are financially supporting through child support.
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