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Can a judge order me to drop my child support order for my two small children if I live with the father and his ex wife is saying that her child support is going into errarages because his income cant cover both orders? The Father lives in my home, but does not contribute anything more but the child support.
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Family Lawyer: Michael, Legal Consultant replied 9 years ago
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HelloCustomer

If you are living with the father of the two children then there is no legal avenue for you to obtain an order of child support from the father.

The law assumes that if both parents are living together than both are providing financial and emotional support to their children. If this is not the case you would be expected to have separate residences.

In that case, you would file a petition with the court and a determination would be made regarding legal custody, physical custody, child support to be paid to you, and visitation rights.

The father's ex-wife may be receiving child support from him, but this cannot prevent the father from paying child support to you for your children. It is because he is residing with you that you cannot ask for child support.

If you lived apart, the fact that he is paying child support for other children would be taken into consideration when calculating the amount of support you would receive, but this would never bring the amount down to zero where you would receive no support. The more children a father is supporting through child support orders (physically residing with none of them), the less he will be expect to pay for each one.

His total child support payment, however, will be higher than if he was only support one child versus two or two versus three.

So the only way to obtain child support is to leave him (or have him move out either voluntarily or by obtaining a restraining order and court order if these are appropriate.) As long as you and he reside together you cannot petition the court for support from him.

Please let me know if you have any questions about this.

Take care,

Michael

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Customer reply replied 9 years ago
But...since I already have an order (we both agreed and had one done to protect the children and prevent him from ever having to pay back children support)CAN a judge make me drop it?
Family Lawyer: Michael, Legal Consultant replied 9 years ago
When you say you both agreed and "had one done" are you referring to a private support agreement as opposed to court-ordered support?
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Customer reply replied 9 years ago
We went through the CSEA
Family Lawyer: Michael, Legal Consultant replied 9 years ago

Technically the judge can order you (and the CSEA) to remove the official support order because you and the father are living together with the child.

So if you are attempting to seek enforcement of the original order through CSEA than the judge is correct in invalidating the order.

The only possibility for you to obtain child support is to 1) live in separate residences in which case a CSEA order can be filed and enforced; or 2) to establish a private agreement between you and the father. When you have a private agreement, however, the CSEA and courts will not recognize it, and will not have any authority to enforce it.

So I'm afraid both of your choices are not great ones. However the law does not provide for judicial or governmental enforcement of a support order in your situation.

I wish I had a different answer for you, but this is how the legislatures have enacted family laws regarding support.

Michael

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