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First, let me offer my condolences to you on the loss of your mother.
As for what is considered proper in terms of what should be placed on the grave marker, either is fine although most grave markers you will see today have both the full dates of birth and death instead of just the years. Older grave markers will have just the years but overtime the change to including the birth day as well as the day your mom passed away seems to be the way grave markers are listed today.
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