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My wife is the executor of my mother in laws living trust.

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My wife is the executor of my mother in laws living trust. My mother in law has dementia and Alzheimer's. My wife's sister is named as second executor if my wife decides to not do the job or give it up. The problem is that my sister in law is constantly going behind my wife's back claiming to be her and makin g doctor appointments and doing everything she can to create havoc. When confronted, my sister in laws says she has the right to do this as my wife is not physically present at the home at that moment and she has the right to do this without asking. My wife wants to remove her from the trust and make someone else the second executor. Can she do this??

Lawyer's Assistant: Since estate law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?

California

Lawyer's Assistant: Has anything been filed or reported?

No. We have sent power of attorney to all the right places, yet the sister keeps doing this and then denies she does. Kaiser has no way of knowing that this is not my wife doing this. my sister in law is very good at brow beating people and threatening to sue

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Can my wife have the living trust altered to change the second executor to a different person
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Only if the trust agreement allows for her to do this.Check the trust agreement the terms control any ability to replace sister.

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If there is no language either way allowing or not allowing?
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