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Hi and welcome to JA.I am Ray and will be the expert helping you tonight.
You can choose to bury her if you want to.If your father is buried it makes sense to have her beside him.Usually he is asking for death certificate to claim bank account or life insurance or to file probate.Be suspicious here he may have some will he got parent to sign and you may need a local lawyer where she deceased to contest any will if you are excluded.
You have legitimate reasons to be concerned and to do what you feel right as far as funeral goes here since you are here in NY where she is.You know what she would have wanted and should act accordingly. But you should expect the worst here, brother may be up to no good.
You would have option here ot make application to probate and see if he produces up a will or not.You amy be appointed administrator here.
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I am so sorry for your loss of parents.I appreciate the chance to help you tonight.Thanks again.
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