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I keep having dreams about my ex and his new girlfriend who was my friend .I keep having dreams about hurting her which i would never do and last night I had a dream that i was a part of a game not unlike the hunger games and at the end it was just the three of us and she was in the middle and I had a knife to her back and he had a bow and arrow and she told him to kill me but he wouldn't so he gave her the bow and arrow and instead of shooting me she shot him because he wouldnt kill me .He told her he couldnt shoot me and died .So then I killed her .Could you please help me with these dreams as i'm starting to get worried.

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Dream Interpretation Expert: Elliott, LPCC, NCC, Psychotherapist replied 8 years ago

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Dear friend,

You have suffered much grief over the loss of your boyfriend. You are very angry at this woman for taking him away from you. You express and relieve your anger at her by dreaming of hurting her, something that you would not do in real life.

The dream pits the three of you off in a competition. You had reached a standoff with you in a position to kill her and he in a position to kill you. He will not kill you to save her (your wish) but he still enables her to kill you with the bow and arrow.

This is not enough for her. She wants total loyalty or nothing, and therefore kills him causing you to kill her.

In the end, you survive, but you are alone. In a perverse way (it is a dream after all), you get the closure you need.

The dream symbolises the end of the relationship and the inevitability of what has happened.

There is absolutely nothing to worry about. It is the way in which your unconscious mind is trying to get closure. One great literary and dream device, is to kill off the protagonists.

You may be alone for the moment, but you have survived and are ready to move on.

It is time to move your focus away from this failed relationship. It is over and time to end this chapter and move on to the next one. You will be just fine. You are a survivor.

Warm regards,

Elliott Sewell, LPCC, NCC, CCMHC

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Customer reply replied 8 years ago

i have written out the full dream as i had left some information out this is the full dream that leads into another dream ..My ex boyfriend is now going out with an old friend ., I keep having dreams about violently hurting this girl which i would never do . Although last night the dream reached another level.In the dream i had voluntered to take part in a game not unlike the hunger games as i had found out my ex and this girl had been choosen to take part when the presenter of the tv programe asked me why i had voluntered to take part and risk my own life in this game i replied Revenge .After killing the others in the game i was left with my ex and this girl the girl was standing in the middle of my ex and I and I had a knife to her back and my ex had a bow and arrow .The girl told my ex to shoot me and he wouldn't so he gave the bow and arrow to her and she shot him telling him he should have killed me .Then I killed her for kiling him .After that I was confronted by an ancient warrior who I had to battle with to win but instead I said i Had a doctors appointment and would be back tomorrow to finish the battle he made me shake his hand to confirm this as he said someone else had done this before and had never come back .Then i was in a very old haunting school .After i was invited to a friends wedding but her flower girl was making her holy communion and i had to do her makeup then on the way to the church downstairs in the church it was a sweet shop and there was no room in the chaple for us to sit so we had to sit in the sweet shop but instead of being at a wedding we were at a funeral .Could you please help me with this dream

Customer reply replied 8 years ago

This is great help thanks so much . I have been having a lot of strange dreams in the last few weeks with a lot of familiar faces in them would you mind if I ran a few by you as i found your responses to be great !!.

Customer reply replied 8 years ago

FOR ELLIOTT

In this dream myself and my best friend and two of our close male friends are in a run down hotel which we are hiding from what could only be described as vampires with wings this hotel was surrouned by gates so we were trapped.When we went to check in we had a choice of rooms at first we picked two seperate rooms .The rooms were strange a double bed with a sort of shell that you pulled over the bed for protection .Seeing how weak the shelter was from the vampires we decided to pay the extra 50pounds for the larger room were all four of us would stay but when my 3 friends went off to leave our lugggage in the other room i was left alone .Then I seen my mum who has been dead for four years now and she told me my dad wasn't my real dad after this i locked myself in the shelled room . Then a vampire game and i was trying to get in contact with one of my firends and he wouldnt come down to help me so i ran .I ran into a crowd of people who were trying to escape from this place only to be captured by this vampire and brought to a deserted shop where she then tried to kill me where my long time friend who is male pointed and laughed as I was being murdered.

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Answer 1

Dear friend,

Thanks for accepting my answer. I apologize for not getting back to you until now but I was away from my computer all day. Now I shall try to interpret the rest of the dream.

You have anger in your heart about this betrayal and loss. You played the game, and even though you "won", being the last person standing, it was a hollow victory. However the appearance of the ancient warrior whose presence signifies that once you go down the path of vengeance, it is a never-ending game and you have to keep defending yourself, at great risk.

You delay the battle with the warrior. You didn't want to continue and have to face an ancient warrior so you backed up. You needed to see a doctor, perhaps because you wanted to know why you felt so disturbed about your betrayal and was having murderous thoughts and deeds. You got out of continuing these vengeful feuds and moved on to a wedding. It signified the wedding you were hoping to have with this boyfriend. It was to be a spiritual affair, a communion of marriage, to take place in the chapel. There was no place for a wedding in the chapel, and it would not be the sweet event that you had hoped for.

Instead, you are in grief, at a funeral. It is the death of your relationship that you mourn.

You will overcome this grief and setback. You will look back at this time in your life and be thankful that you didn't marry this man.

Your destiny still awaits you. This wasn't the right person or time, but one shall come along and this sad time will barely be a memory in the not too distant future.

I will keep you in my prayers.

Warm regards,

Elliott

Elliott Sewell, LPCC, NCC, CCMHC

Answer 2

Dear friend,

Thank you for your kind words.

It you have another dream that you wish to have interpreted, just submit it as a new question, and at the begininng simpy write FOR ELLIOTT.

Thank you so much.

Warm regards

Elliott

Answer 3

Dear friend,

Once again murder and death are central to your dreams. Once again you are being victimized by a woman who is a vampire: she will suck out your blood and life force.

This is most likely the same woman who you faced in your last dream, who symbolized the women who took your boyfriend - a type of vampire.

You want to feel protected and surrounded by friends. However, it is hard to know whom you can trust. Your one male friend who laughs at you as you are being murdered represents your feeling about men as a reflection of your boyfriend who betrayed you. You cannot run, hide, pay extra money for more protection, or rely on anything but your own instincts.

Since the dream is about betrayal, you have even recreated your mother as someone who betrayed your alleged assumed dad, and was impregnated (with you) by another man.

Perhaps this is an old thought, or something you might have heard long ago, buried in your unconscious mind. These forgotten thoughts may also inhabit your psyche but only come to the surface, symbolically in your dreams.

Having traumatic experiences can bring forth these kind of dreams. Being abandoned by your boyfriend could easily be enough to produce these kinds of dreams.

The best protection against betrayal is to follow your gut instincts.

Please remember to leave positive feedback so that I can get credit for my work Thank you.

I wish you great success.

Warm regards,

Elliott

Elliott Sewell, LPCC, NCC, CCMHC

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