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My problem is re-introducing my dog to my best friend's dog

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Hello, my problem is re-introducing my dog to my best friend’s dog (both males). They met when my dog (miniature schnauzer) was about two years old and my friend’s dog (cocker spaniel) was a few months old. The cocker puppy was very aggressive, when my dog would growl at him when the puppy would hurt him, the cocker wouldn’t stop but become more aggressive. I was afraid my dog would hurt him since the other dog was just a puppy so I stopped my dog from making my friend’s dog respect his boundaries.
A year or so later they met again at my friend’s house and as soon as my dog saw the cocker, he turned into Cujo and would not even let the cocker come around him. My dog immediately took the offensive and was looking for a fight. They have not been around each other again.
Now, my dog is 13, partially blind, hard of hearing and has hip problems. The cocker is around 11 and not in the best of health. My friend and I are now widowed and want to move to another town and live together but we are worried about how the dogs will behave. In addition, I now have a six year old Yorkshire Terrier who I have never seen around any other dog than my schnauzer. They get along great and are best friends.
How can my friend and I re-introduce our dogs? Is it better to take them to some place like a doggy day care and let them meet in a neutral surrounding without us being around? I think my nervousness over their meeting will be picked up by my dogs and cause a problem. What is your suggestion?
Georgiana White
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Dog Training
Expert:  Jane Lefler replied 1 year ago.

Hi Georgiana,

My name is ***** ***** I’ve been involved professionally with dogs in the health and behavioral fields for over 18 years. It will be my pleasure to work with you today.

In order to supply you with an informed answer, it is necessary for me to collect some additional information from you. When I receive your response or reply, it will likely take me between 30-45 minutes to type up my reply if I am still online when I receive notice that you replied. I hope you can be patient.

Has either of the older dogs had obedience training?

how about the little yorkie?

What sex are the dogs?

Is the cocker the biggest dog?

Expert:  Jane Lefler replied 1 year ago.

I was hoping you were still online but let me get you an answer so it is waiting for you when you get back online.

You should definitely reintroduce the dogs away from home. If possible, choose an area such as an enlcosed tennis court where they can trail their leashes and interact more normally without being around other dogs and people but still able to flee from the other if necessary.

You don't want to be holding the leashes as often an owner will worry a little about the dogs reaction and the dog will pick up the owners worry through the leash and then think the other dog is the cause for your worry and be protective of you. This can set the dogs up to fail which you don't want. If your dog has been the aggressor, you might want to get there after the other dog is already there and at the far side of the court.

Keeping the leash attached will allow you to grab or step on the leashes to control the dogs if they do get into a fight. I also what you to pay attention to body language as well since it will help you determine whether the dogs are feeling friendly, aggressive or dominant. The following sites are helpful with learning body language.

You will also need to involve the yorkie in the meeting with the new dog as well. The Yorkie may end up being the most dominant of the dogs since the other dogs are elderly and he is likely still in good health. If you feel you will be too nervous, perhaps you have someone else that can help bring the dog into the meeting place without worrying as well.

I would take some tasty treats like hot dog slivers and if the dogs ignore each other, you can give your dogs a treat. If the dogs are interacting well, you can call each of them to their owner and give them a treat away from each other so food aggression does not occur along with nice calm praise. If they show any aggression toward one another, I would give the leash a tub and deliver a firm low toned "NO" as a reprimand. You can even correct any aggressive body language you see as well.

I'd try for several meetings away for home before inviting one to the other's home. Before the meetings, take a towel and rub it all over the dogs in one household. Have your friend do the same, then exchange towels so each dog is more used to the other dog's scent. That way when they meet, they already know the scent. They likely have already smelled it on you and your friend, but getting them more familiar with it usually helps.

Once you actually do the meeting, I'm sure you will have more questions, so even after rating this answer, you can come back for further clarification and help at no additional cost.

I hope this information is helpful to you. If you would like any additional information or have more questions please don’t hesitate to press the reply to expert or continue conversation button so I can address any issues you still have . If you do find this helpful, please take this opportunity to rate my answer so I am compensated for my time.

Expert:  Jane Lefler replied 1 year ago.
I'm just following up on our conversation about your pet. How is everything going?
Jane Lefler

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